[tools, cmake] refactor: update/hash check scripts, use tags for some more deps, proper CPMUtil separation (#2666)

Uses tags for a bunch of deps that can use them

Also adds a bunmch of scripts to tools/cpm, notably for checking hashes
and checking for updates.

TODO for the future:
- CI target to check hashes
- Weekly CI to check for updates

Need to get that other CI runner up

additional stuff

- Ports gentoo fixes
- makes solaris work (TODO: sdl2)
- way better docs
- properly separates CPMUtil as a standalone project

Reviewed-on: https://git.eden-emu.dev/eden-emu/eden/pulls/2666
Reviewed-by: Lizzie <lizzie@eden-emu.dev>
Reviewed-by: MaranBr <maranbr@eden-emu.dev>

tools/clang-format.sh

@@ -1,3 +1,6 @@
 #! /bin/sh
 
-exec find src -iname *.h -o -iname *.cpp | xargs clang-format-15 -i -style=file:src/.clang-format
+# SPDX-FileCopyrightText: Copyright 2025 Eden Emulator Project
+# SPDX-License-Identifier: GPL-3.0-or-later
+
+exec find src -iname "*.h" -o -iname "*.cpp" | xargs clang-format -i -style=file:src/.clang-format